So back in 2020, I got super curious about Virgo love horoscopes after seeing folks online swear by ’em. Grabbed my laptop, brewed some coffee, and thought: “Why not test-drive this love advice myself?” Here’s exactly how it went down.
The Starting Point
First, I dug up my Virgo details—born September 10th. Searched “Virgo September 2020 love horoscope” like crazy, clicking past sketchy sites full of pop-up ads. Finally landed on one that seemed legit, talking about Mercury retrograde messing with communication. Their main tip? “Stay patient with partners, don’t over-criticize.” Hmm. My own relationship was super tense then, so this felt… relevant.
What I Actually Did
Decided to try it for a week. My usual move? Nitpicking my partner’s habits nonstop (dirty dishes = war). That Monday, I literally bit my tongue when they left coffee stains. Felt like holding in a sneeze. Tuesday… still bit my tongue. Wednesday? Almost slipped—nearly threw my laptop when they forgot trash day. But nope, stayed quiet. Thursday… weirdly calmer? Friday, we actually laughed during dinner. By Sunday, things were less… explosive. Not perfect, just less fights.
- Biggest challenge? Shutting down my Virgo urge to “fix” everything aloud.
- Tool used? Just my phone notepad tracking daily reactions.
- Surprise? Partner noticed the quiet streak. Asked if I was sick.
Why Patience (Kinda) Worked
Found out my criticising made them defensive—duh, obvious now! That horoscope advice forced me to pause instead of attacking. Timing lined up too: Mercury retrograde did make texts get misinterpreted that month. When I stopped obsessing over tiny flaws? Felt like lowering a shield. Didn’t magically fix love life, but did chill out our vibe. Solid 7/10 experiment.
Lessons Learned
Don’t force compatibility. That week taught me real relationships aren’t horoscope spells—they’re choosing kindness daily. Virgos wanna organise chaos, but sometimes? Let the coffee stains slide. Oh, and triple-check astro dates next time. Accidentally followed August’s advice first—total fail.