I got this whole idea about the third part of Virgo and how it could fix my messy relationship after a huge fight with my partner last week. We kept arguing over stupid stuff, like who forgot to take out the trash or why dinner was late, and it felt like we were just stuck in a rut. So, I thought, why not try some weird star stuff to see if it helps? I mean, I’m no expert, but it seemed easy enough to dig into.
Digging into the Virgo Thing
I started by googling some basic stuff because, honestly, I didn’t know squat about this third part of Virgo deal. Turns out, it’s all about that critical, organized side of Virgo, and how it messes with love if you’re not careful. But I kept it simple, focusing on little actions I could do to make things less annoying. First, I jotted down notes on my phone, like bullet points from some random websites.
- What it says: Virgo people in this third part overthink everything and can be super picky, which ruins the fun in relationships.
- My plan: I figured I’d try to chill out and not nag so much about small things, ’cause my partner hates that.
It sounded lame, but I was desperate. I spent a whole evening reading up, and I realized I was doing that picky stuff too, always pointing out flaws instead of just going with the flow.
Testing it Out in Real Life
Then, I decided to put it into practice right away. The next morning, I woke up and thought, “Okay, today’s the day—I’m gonna bite my tongue and focus on the good bits instead of complaining.” So, when my partner left a mess in the kitchen, I didn’t snap or anything. I just cleaned it up quietly and said something nice like, “Hey, thanks for cooking last night.” Felt totally awkward, ’cause it’s not my style, but I forced myself.
Later, we had this chat about weekend plans, and I caught myself about to nitpick how my partner always takes too long to decide. Instead, I paused and said, “Whatever you want is fine with me.” I saw a surprised look on my partner’s face, like, “Who are you?” That was kinda funny, and it made the convo way smoother. No yelling, no eye-rolling—just normal talk.
This went on for a few days, and I kept notes on how it felt. One night, it backfired a bit ’cause I overdid it and ended up bottling up some annoyance. But I learned to balance it—not being fake, just choosing when to speak up and when to let things slide.
How it All Turned Out
By the end of the week, it actually worked way better than I expected. We had less fighting and more laughs, like we were back to how we started when things were good. It wasn’t magic or anything, just shifting my own attitude helped a ton. Now, I see that this Virgo stuff makes sense—it’s all about not sweating the small stuff and keeping things light. My relationship feels way more compatible, and honestly, it saved me from another stupid argument spiral.
