venus in virgo personality

So today I decided to dig into what Venus in Virgo actually means for people. Honestly, I didn’t know much about it before, just heard it makes folks picky in relationships. Grabbed my laptop and opened up some astrology forums around breakfast time.

Observing Real People First

Started with my friend Lisa since I remembered she’s got this placement. Watched how she interacts with her new boyfriend. Noticed she’d fix his collar three times during brunch and kept rearranging the salt shakers on the table. Took mental notes: “okay, the perfectionism thing checks out.”

Testing Theories Myself

Did this experiment week where I pretended to have Venus in Virgo:

Made spreadsheet ratings for every date instead of just winging it
Started reorganizing my partner’s kitchen cabinets unasked
Actually said “your emotional baggage needs systematic sorting” to someone

Felt exhausting by day three. My partner thought I’d gone nuts when I color-coded their sock drawer.

Surprises Along the Way

Biggest shock? It’s not just about nitpicking. Kept seeing patterns:

Friends with this placement remember every single gift they’ve ever given
They’ll drive 40 minutes to fix your crooked picture frame
Actual quote from Lisa: “If you can’t analyze it in Excel, is it even love?”

Never realized how much this placement thinks love = practical service. Thought flowers were universal romance language. Wrong.

Weird Self-Discovery Moment

Here’s where it got personal – noticed my brother’s been married to a Venus in Virgo woman for 15 years. Asked him how he copes. He just laughed and pulled out his wallet: “See this? She updates my reward points spreadsheet weekly.” Then it hit me – my own gift-giving habits suck. Might start taking notes.