So today I decided to dig into what Venus in Virgo actually means for people. Honestly, I didn’t know much about it before, just heard it makes folks picky in relationships. Grabbed my laptop and opened up some astrology forums around breakfast time.
Observing Real People First
Started with my friend Lisa since I remembered she’s got this placement. Watched how she interacts with her new boyfriend. Noticed she’d fix his collar three times during brunch and kept rearranging the salt shakers on the table. Took mental notes: “okay, the perfectionism thing checks out.”
Testing Theories Myself
Did this experiment week where I pretended to have Venus in Virgo:
- Made spreadsheet ratings for every date instead of just winging it
- Started reorganizing my partner’s kitchen cabinets unasked
- Actually said “your emotional baggage needs systematic sorting” to someone
Felt exhausting by day three. My partner thought I’d gone nuts when I color-coded their sock drawer.
Surprises Along the Way
Biggest shock? It’s not just about nitpicking. Kept seeing patterns:
- Friends with this placement remember every single gift they’ve ever given
- They’ll drive 40 minutes to fix your crooked picture frame
- Actual quote from Lisa: “If you can’t analyze it in Excel, is it even love?”
Never realized how much this placement thinks love = practical service. Thought flowers were universal romance language. Wrong.
Weird Self-Discovery Moment
Here’s where it got personal – noticed my brother’s been married to a Venus in Virgo woman for 15 years. Asked him how he copes. He just laughed and pulled out his wallet: “See this? She updates my reward points spreadsheet weekly.” Then it hit me – my own gift-giving habits suck. Might start taking notes.
Final Takeaways
After weeks of this:
- Virgo Venus people show love like productivity ninjas
- Their “I love you” looks like organizing your tax documents
- If you’re dating one, learn to appreciate spreadsheet birthday gifts
Honestly? Kinda respect it now. But still hid my sock drawer before Lisa came over yesterday.
