So today I figured I’d dig into what those top astrologer folks say about Virgo rising women in love. Honestly? Never really paid much attention to rising signs myself, but hey, why not give it a shot.
Started simple – just opened up Google and typed in “virgo rising woman in love traits”. Boom, tons of articles popped up. Skimmed through the first few links. Realized pretty quick that some sites looked sketchy, like someone typed it all out while half-asleep. Filtered those out. Focused on the ones mentioning actual astrologers by name or legit astrology platforms. Took notes in my messy notebook, scribbling down points that kept popping up.
What Kept Coming Up
- Super picky AF: Like, way more than usual? Articles hammered this point. Apparently analyzing every little detail of a potential partner is standard. Saw words like “discerning” and “cautious” everywhere.
- Acts of Service = Love Language: Almost every source linked Virgo rising heavily to showing care through doing things. Fixing your stuff, remembering your weird coffee order, planning practical dates – that’s their jam.
- Worries… a lot: Kept seeing mentions of overthinking relationships. Like, spinning worst-case scenarios in their heads about tiny things, especially early on. “Critical” and “reserved” were common labels.
- Needs Stability & Order: Chaos in the relationship? Big no-no. Talked about needing things to feel secure, reliable, and predictable. Messiness or flakiness = major turn-off.
- Slow Burn Romance: Forget love at first sight fireworks. The consensus was these women take their sweet time warming up. Building trust brick by brick is the vibe.
Okay, cool info dump. But then, halfway through my third coffee, something clicked. This sounded… familiar. Like, way too familiar.
Suddenly remembered my ex, Sarah. Total Virgo rising (her moon was in Leo too, drama!). Things she did back then, stuff that drove me nuts or confused me, suddenly made this awful kind of sense through this astro lens.
Exhibit A: The Endless Analysis Phase. When we first met? Yeah. It felt like I was under a microscope. She’d ask these tiny, detailed questions about my job, my family history, even how I folded my laundry (or didn’t). Took ages before she seemed truly relaxed. Now those articles calling them “cautious” felt painfully accurate.
Exhibit B: Actions Were Everything. Sarah was terrible with mushy words, honestly. But she’d randomly show up at my place with my favorite soup when I was sick, or spend a whole weekend helping me fix my leaky sink without me asking. Acts of service, loud and clear. At the time, I wished she’d just say she cared more. But looking back? That was her saying it.
Exhibit C: The Worry Spiral. Oh man, the overthinking. If I was ten minutes late because of traffic? She’d assume I was reconsidering the entire relationship or got into a car wreck. Minor disagreement? Could spiral into her worrying if we were fundamentally incompatible. The articles nailed the “critical” and “worries easily” part dead on.
Exhibit D: Chill Out, It’s Chaos! I’m admittedly not the most organized dude. My place? Functional chaos. Hers? Spotless, labeled spice rack territory. One weekend I left dishes in the sink overnight? Saw genuine distress on her face. Stability and order weren’t preferences for her; they were needs. Reading those traits? Yep, spot on about needing structure.
Exhibit E: Glaciers Move Faster. Building trust? Man, that took work. She wasn’t cold, just… slow. Guarded. Sharing deep feelings felt like pulling teeth initially. The “slow burn” thing? Absolute truth from the articles.
So yeah, researched online, noted the patterns, then – bam! – my own past relationship practically screamed the traits at me. Kinda freaky how it matched up.
Finished my notes, closed the browser tabs. Final verdict? Will it magically solve relationship stuff? Probably not. But understanding that potential Virgo rising energy? Maybe makes things like their cautious analysis or silent acts of service less baffling, more just… how some people are wired. Mostly just confirmed astrology is either wildly specific coincidence… or kinda weirdly accurate sometimes. Still leaning towards coincidence though, gotta be honest.
