Well, I’ve been in a relationship with a Virgo man for a while, and I was kinda in a tight spot financially. So, I decided to figure out how to make him give me money. Here’s what I did.
1. Build Emotional Connection
I started by spending more time with him. We’d go on walks in the park, just chatting about our days. I’d listen to his problems and give him hugs. I’d ask him how his work was going and really care about his answers. By doing this, I made him feel like I was there for him, and he started to trust me more. For example, one time he was really stressed about a project at work. I sat with him for hours, just letting him vent. After that, he seemed closer to me.
2. Show Your Value
I made sure he saw how useful I was. I’d cook him nice meals at home. Once, I made this amazing lasagna. He loved it so much! I also helped him organize his messy closet. I sorted his clothes by color and type. He was really impressed. I let him know that having me around made his life better in many ways.
3. Be Subtle with Hints
I didn’t just come out and ask for money right away. Instead, I’d drop little hints. Like, I’d say things like “I really want to see that new movie, but tickets are kinda expensive these days.” Or “I’d love to get a new pair of shoes, but they’re out of my budget.” I did this a few times, and he started to pick up on it.
4. Appeal to His Sense of Responsibility
I told him about some of my financial troubles in a non – demanding way. I said things like “I’m having a hard time paying for my car insurance this month. It’s really stressing me out.” I made it clear that I wasn’t asking for a handout but just needed a bit of help. I reminded him that we were in a relationship and that we should support each other.
5. Promise to Pay Back (If Needed)
When I finally asked him for the money, I promised to pay him back. I said “I know this is a big ask, but if you can lend me some money, I’ll pay you back as soon as I get my paycheck.” He seemed more comfortable with the idea when he knew I wasn’t just taking his money for free.
And guess what? It worked! He gave me the money I needed. It was a process, but by following these steps, I was able to get the financial help I wanted from my Virgo man.
