So, you’re wondering about that 2019 Virgo Monthly Love Horoscope forecast I put out there, huh? Man, that was a wild ride, and honestly, a project born out of a whole lot of personal chaos. It wasn’t some polished, professional gig right from the start. Nah, it was much more grounded, much more… human.
I remember it like it was yesterday, though it feels a lifetime ago. The end of 2018 rolled around, and I was just floating, really. My own life, especially the love part, was a bit of a train wreck. I felt completely adrift, without a compass or even a paddle. I’d lost my old job a few months prior, a real blindside, and suddenly had way too much free time on my hands and way too much doubt in my head. I was just trying to figure out what was next, trying to find some kind of mooring point in the daily scramble.
During that time, pretty much by accident, I started digging through some old boxes in the attic. You know, just to feel productive, clear some clutter. And I stumbled upon a bunch of old astrology books. These were my grandma’s, bless her heart. She was always into that stuff, charting moon phases, talking about what sign was where. As a kid, I just nodded along, never really paid much attention, thought it was just her quirky thing. But sitting there, feeling totally lost and a bit desperate, I picked one up.
I started flipping through it, then reading, then really reading. Something about the cycles, the patterns, the idea that there might be some kind of cosmic rhythm to things, it just kinda… resonated. It was a comfort, a way to make sense of the senseless. I didn’t believe it was gospel, but it offered a different lens to view the world, and honestly, my own messy situation. I started pulling up my own birth chart online, just for kicks, trying to connect dots, looking for explanations, anything.
Soon enough, a couple of close friends got wind of my new ‘hobby.’ One of them, my buddy Sarah, a hardcore Virgo, was going through an especially brutal patch with her long-term boyfriend. She was totally burned out, feeling unappreciated, just drained. One evening, over cheap takeout, she looked at me with those tired eyes and said, “Look, you’re into this stuff now. Just tell me something, anything, for next year. What’s coming for Virgos in love? Give me a heads-up so I can brace myself.”
And that, right there, was the spark. It wasn’t about building a massive audience or becoming some kind of guru. It was just for her. To give her some kind of hopeful nudge, a little bit of foresight, or just a different perspective to hold onto. That’s how the idea of putting together that 2019 Virgo Monthly Love Horoscope really took root in my mind. It was a personal mission, born from a desperate need to help a friend, and maybe, just maybe, find a bit of my own footing along the way.
My Dive into the 2019 Virgo Love Forecast Grind
Once I committed, I knew I couldn’t just wing it. I wanted to make it as thoughtful as I could, even if I was just fumbling through. I wanted it to feel like it had some legitimate basis, even if just in the symbolic language of the stars. So, I set myself up for what became a weeks-long deep dive.
- First, I dug up the tools. I opened up my dusty old laptop. It had some basic, no-frills astrology software I’d downloaded years ago and forgotten about. From there, I managed to pull up an ephemeris for the whole of 2019. If you don’t know, an ephemeris is just a big old table showing where all the planets are gonna be, like, every single day of the year. It’s a lot of numbers, a lot of symbols, pretty overwhelming to look at first.
- Then, I went old school. I printed out those massive, messy charts. Had pages and pages spread all over my dining room table. I grabbed a big, fat spiral notebook, the kind with wide lines, and a whole bunch of different colored pens. I needed to color-code everything because my brain just gets lost in black and white text.
- Charting the course. I started methodically marking down all the major planetary movements for 2019 that would specifically interact with Virgo’s chart. I paid extra attention to the houses related to partnerships, romance, intimacy, and even their daily routines, because for a Virgo, their day-to-day balance totally impacts their love life. The big players were Venus (for love and desire), Mars (for action and passion), Jupiter (for expansion and luck), Saturn (for challenges and structure), Uranus (for surprises), Neptune (for dreams and confusion), and Pluto (for transformation).
- Month by month breakdown. I went through January, then February, then March, and so on, all the way to December. For each month, I’d pinpoint what planets were in Virgo, what planets were opposing them, squaring them, trining them – all these different ‘aspects’ that astrologers talk about. And then I’d start interpreting what those combinations could mean for a Virgo navigating their love life. Like, a Venus square Saturn? That just screamed relationship hurdles or feeling restricted in affection. Jupiter trining their Sun? That often points to good vibes for growing connections or finding happiness.
- Looking at both sides. It wasn’t just about spotting potential problems. I looked for the good stuff too. When might be a fantastic time for honest conversations? When should they just relax and let things unfold? When could a new connection surface, or maybe an old spark rekindle?
- Synthesizing and writing. It involved a lot of staring at those charts, cross-referencing notes from different books I owned, and trying to pull it all together. I’d read one interpretation, then another, and then try to blend them into something that felt logical and, most importantly, helpful. I kept thinking of Sarah, of her situation, and tried to frame the advice or the forecast in a way that truly resonated with her, and hopefully, other Virgos out there going through similar feelings.
- Crafting the message. I first jotted down everything in raw bullet points, just my initial thoughts. Then I’d go back and work on weaving those ideas into full, readable sentences, making it flow like a conversation. I made sure to keep the language really simple, really direct. No super obscure astrological terms that would just confuse people. I wanted it to sound like I was just talking to a friend, giving them a heads-up for the month. The ‘love’ part was definitely the trickiest, because love isn’t just one thing. It’s about self-love, improving current relationships, getting through breakups, even strengthening bonds with family or friends. Since Virgos are super practical, I tried to make the advice practical too – not just a vague “expect romance,” but more like “this might be a good month to finally have that deep talk you’ve been avoiding” or “focus on some serious self-care to feel more grounded.”
I spent weeks on that thing, late nights poring over pages and tapping away on my laptop. It was a labor of… well, if not love, then certainly intense focus. Once I had it all typed up and formatted simply, like a regular blog post, I sent it to Sarah first. She actually got a little teary-eyed, saying it felt like I’d somehow looked right into her soul and knew what she needed to hear. That was all the feedback I needed. It gave me the push to share it, to put it out there for anyone else who might be looking for a bit of guidance, just like Sarah, and just like I was back then when I first opened those old books.
