Okay so listen up, I actually tried this whole Taurus man Virgo woman thing myself. I’m the Virgo, my guy’s the Taurus. Been together a while, but you know, the spark needed some serious stoking. Saw this compatibility talk everywhere, figured it couldn’t hurt to try some “expert advice.” Spoiler: it was a mix of “wow” and “whoa, seriously?”
The Starting Point: Like Two Shy Clams
My guy? Total Taurus. Loves his creature comforts, big time. Me? Virgo brain, always analyzing, gotta have things just right. In the beginning, trying to get intimate felt like navigating a minefield blindfolded. I’d be overthinking the sheets aren’t crisp enough, he’d be frustrated ‘cause I wasn’t just letting go. Not fun. Decided maybe those zodiac tips weren’t just fluff.
Putting That “Expert” Stuff to the Test
First thing the so-called experts hammer? Patience. Slow. Down. Especially for Taurus guys, apparently. Mine loves luxury, touch, the good stuff. So I tried setting the stage properly. Didn’t just jump him after dinner.
- Dimmed the lights.
- Pulled out those fancy massage oils he loves.
- Put on some chill music, not my usual podcasts.
- Started with just rubbing his shoulders, no expectations. Seriously, no rush.
Felt awkward at first, like I was performing. But honestly? The shift was crazy. He practically melted into the bed. This big, solid Taurus guy went all relaxed and soft under my hands. Instead of him pushing for more, fast, he was just… enjoying. Total game changer. The Taurus craving for sensual pleasure? Real.
The Virgo Kryptonite (and How We Tamed It)
Now me? The Virgo headspace. Constantly thinking: “Is he enjoying this? Should I move lower? Did I lock the door? Are those socks still on the floor?!”. Pure torture trying to stay in the moment.
Advice said Virgos need to trust the process and feel secure. Here’s what kinda worked:
- Talking beforehand (not during!). Just a simple “Hey, tonight, let’s try just focusing on each other, no pressure.” Cleared the mental clutter.
- He started being more vocal. Simple stuff like “That feels amazing,” or just groaning. That feedback loop? Gold for the Virgo brain. Stopped the guessing game.
- Letting him take over sometimes. Seriously. Once I set the slow, sensual vibe (Taurus kryptonite!), his natural Bull stubbornness actually flipped into confident control. Knowing he was tuned in helped my Virgo anxiety take a hike.
The Unexpected Payoff
Did all that advice fix everything overnight? Hell no. Still had moments where my brain went rogue or he got impatient. But focusing on those basic needs – him needing the slow burn and physical luxury, me needing mental clarity and reassurance – made the biggest damn difference.
Started connecting on a level that wasn’t just… friction. Felt intimate. Powerful. Like we actually got each other’s secret code. The sex got so much better – hotter, longer, way more satisfying for both of us. Took work, but ditching the idea of fireworks every second for building real understanding? Best advice I took.
Honestly? Forget the “magic tips”. It boiled down to two things for us:
- Feed the Bull: Take the time. Touch. Comfort. Sensory stuff.
- Calm the Virgin: Talk a little. Provide clarity. Build trust.
Took some practice, felt clunky sometimes, but now? Still going strong. Guess sometimes the stars aren’t complete bullshit. Who knew?
