Okay so last Tuesday I got this itch to check my December horoscope. Normally I don’t take this stuff too serious, you know? But hey, love life’s been quiet, kinda boring really. Saw the title “Will Love Bloom? Virgo December Love Horoscope 2024 Answers and Quick Tips!” and thought, “Why not? Could be fun.” Grabbed my morning coffee and dove in.
Figuring Out What The Stars Said
First thing I did was actually read the whole prediction for Virgos. Apparently December’s all about opening up and “shedding the practical shell” – their words, not mine! They kept going on about Mercury retrograde messing with communication early in the month and Venus bringing some sparkle later. Key themes were patience, being open to unexpected connections, and not over-analyzing every little feeling. Right. Easy for stars to say.
My Plan Of Attack
Didn’t wanna just read it and forget, y’know? Decided to pick two specific tips mentioned and actually try them out all month long:
- Stop Obsessing Over the “Right” Person: They basically said Virgos (yeah, me) have this list a mile long and scare everyone off. Guilty as charged. So my practice? When chatting with someone new, I consciously tried NOT to mentally check them against my usual “must have perfect job/personality/life goals” list. Just… let the chat flow. Weirdly hard.
- Say “Yes” More to Social Stuff: Specifically stuff I’d usually bail on. “Low-key gathering with friends of friends? Ugh, tired.” My usual vibe. The prediction pushed saying yes. So I did. Even when Netflix sounded way better.
How It Actually Went Down
Okay, first week? Mercury retrograde whatever. Felt like it! Miscommunication with a coworker I kinda fancied – totally fumbled a text. Instead of freaking out like usual (“He hates me!”), remembered the patience thing. Waited a day, clarified face-to-face. Disaster avoided. Small win.
The “no checklist” thing was brutal. Met someone at a coffee shop, decent chat. My brain immediately went: “But does he have a stable career? What’s his 5-year plan?” Had to physically shake my head like a dog to stop it! Ended up having a nice, pressure-free conversation about travel instead of interrogating him.
Saying “yes” was exhausting but… kinda worked? Went to that boring-looking party mid-month. Knew maybe two people. Ended up talking to this woman who works restoring old books – fascinating! Not romantic, but cool connection. Another “yes” got me dragged to a dorky board game night. Laughed harder than I have in weeks. Felt lighter. Maybe Venus was doing its thing?
Final Thoughts & Weird Coincidences
Honestly? Did a grand love bloom in December? Nah. Didn’t meet “the one.” BUT. Old me would call this a bust. New me (forced into being by this practice) sees it differently.
- Actually enjoyed meeting people WITHOUT the agenda for once.
- Had way more genuine laughs.
- Stopped stressing about the lack of dates constantly.
And here’s the weird part: Just before New Year’s Eve, got a message outta the blue from someone I briefly dated ages ago. Friendly chat. Turns out they moved back. Now, that could be nothing. Old Virgo me would analyze it to death. New me? Just said, “Hey, cool, good to hear from you.” Maybe leaving the door open, like the horoscope suggested.
So, stars 1, Skepticism 0? Maybe not that far. But trying their dumb tips definitely shifted something. Less pressure, more openness. Weird. Maybe this “blooming” isn’t always a big romantic explosion, but just… feeling better about it all. Will keep the “yes” thing going, that was kinda fun. Anyway, that was my December experiment!
