Well, I’ve been in a relationship with a Virgo for a while, and let me tell you, it was a bit of a rollercoaster at first. I was like, “Are Virgo relationships really this difficult?” But then I found some ways to make it easier, and I’m gonna share ’em with y’all.
At the beginning, things were kinda rough. Virgos are super detail – oriented, you know? Like, my Virgo partner would always point out the tiniest things that were out of place. I’d leave my socks on the floor, and they’d go nuts! It felt like I was constantly walking on eggshells.
So, the first thing I did was to start listening more. I mean, really listen. When my partner would talk about their day, I’d put down my phone, look ’em in the eye, and nod. I’d ask questions like, “How did that make you feel?” or “What did you do next?” This made them feel valued, and they started opening up more to me. It was like unlocking a secret door to their heart.
The second thing was about being organized together. I’m not naturally an organized person, but I knew it was important to my Virgo partner. So, we sat down and made a weekly cleaning schedule. On Saturdays, we’d clean the whole house together. It was actually kinda fun! We’d play some music, and before we knew it, the house was sparkling. This shared activity brought us closer, and it also reduced a lot of the little arguments we used to have about messiness.
The third thing was giving them space. Virgos need their alone time to recharge. Sometimes, my partner would say they wanted to spend an evening reading or doing some solo hobby. At first, I was a bit bummed, thinking they didn’t want to be with me. But then I realized it was just their way of taking care of themselves. So, I’d say, “Sure, have a great time!” and then I’d go do my own thing, like watching a movie or hanging out with friends. When they came back, they were always in a better mood, and we had more to talk about.
After doing these three things, our relationship got a whole lot easier. We still have our ups and downs, but now we know how to handle them better. If you’re in a relationship with a Virgo, give these things a try. You might be surprised at how much of a difference they can make!
