Well, I’ve been dealing with some female Virgo friends lately, and boy, it’s been quite a ride! Let me tell you about my experiences and how I’ve tried to handle it.
First off, I met this Virgo girl at a party. She was super organized, checking everything twice, and seemed a bit perfectionist. I started chatting with her, and right away, I could tell she was detail – oriented. She was asking me all sorts of specific questions about what I did for a living, like how many projects I’d completed last year and what the success rate was. I was like, “Whoa, this is some in – depth stuff!”
As we hung out more, I noticed she was really critical. One time, we were planning a trip. She went through the itinerary with a fine – tooth comb. She pointed out that the hotel we booked didn’t have enough reviews and the flight times were a bit off. I was getting a bit annoyed, but I knew I had to handle it.
So, the first way I tried to handle it was by being patient. Instead of getting defensive when she criticized, I just listened. I let her rant about the flaws in our plans, and then I calmly said, “You make some good points. Let’s see what we can do to fix it.” This seemed to calm her down a bit, and we ended up finding better options.
The second way was to be more organized myself. I started making lists and double – checking things before I presented them to her. For example, when we were going to a movie, I made sure I knew the showtimes, the location of the theater, and even checked if there were any discounts. This way, she had less to nitpick about.
The third way was to give her some space. Sometimes, she would get really stressed about small things. When I saw she was in that mood, I just backed off a bit. I’d say, “Hey, take your time to figure this out. I’ll wait.” And it worked! She came back to me later, all calm and ready to talk rationally.
Overall, dealing with female Virgo traits wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be. By being patient, getting organized, and giving her space, I was able to have a great time with my Virgo friends. It’s all about understanding and adapting to their personalities.
