So, about this Aries and Virgo romance in 2021 thing. I’m an Aries, always jumping into things, and my partner back then was a total Virgo, super organized and picky. We started having issues at the beginning of the year, fights over stupid stuff like how to clean the house or plan dates. Felt like banging my head against a wall, you know?
How I Began Looking Into It
Early in 2021, after another big argument, I got fed up and thought, “Why not check out this star sign compatibility stuff?” I’d heard friends talk about it but never paid attention. So one night, I grabbed my laptop, fired it up, and just typed “Aries Virgo love tips.” Found a bunch of forums and random articles, nothing fancy, but it gave me ideas on where to start.
What I Actually Tried
Armed with those basics, I jumped into action. Here’s the real deal of what I did:
- Talked to my pals: Hit up my buddies who are into astrology, over coffee or texts. Like, “Hey, how do you deal with a Virgo as an Aries?” Got mixed advice—some said chill out, others said it’s doomed. But hey, I listened.
- Started tracking habits: Kept a little notebook for a month, scribbling down times we clashed and why. For example, when she wanted things perfect and I just wanted to wing it.
- Experimented with slowing down: Yeah, I forced myself to pause before reacting. Instead of snapping during arguments, I’d say, “Hold on, let’s think.” It felt weird at first, like walking through mud.
Roadblocks Along the Way
This wasn’t no cakewalk. Mid-year, around July, things got rough. She’d nitpick everything, and I’d blow up—total mess. One time, we fought over vacation plans; she had a detailed list, and I just wanted adventure. I almost quit the whole effort, thinking it was a waste of time. But those notes reminded me to not give up.
Finally Seeing Results
By fall 2021, things started clicking. I applied what I learned: for her birthday, I surprised her with a neat, thoughtful gift instead of something flashy. And she eased up too, even joining me on some spontaneous stuff. We found a balance—her detail focus helped me, and my energy kept it fun.
Looking back, yeah, it worked out better. We didn’t end up married or anything dramatic, but the fights dropped off, and we enjoyed the time more. If you’re in the same boat, just try it step by step—patience pays off.
