So I decided to really dig into this Virgo and Taurus thing after my buddy kept complaining about his relationship. He’s a Taurus, his girlfriend is a Virgo, and they’re always bickering about the dumbest stuff. I figured, why not test it out myself? I’m a Virgo, and my partner is a Taurus. Let’s see what the fuss is about.
Starting the Experiment
First thing I did was sit down with my partner and explain the whole plan. I said, “Look, we’re gonna try to be super aware of our whole… vibe for a couple of weeks.” I made a little notebook, just a cheap one from the store, to write stuff down every day.
The first few days were kinda funny. We were both trying to be on our best behavior. I noticed I was being extra critical about little things, like how the towels were folded. And my partner was being stubborn about what to watch on TV. But instead of arguing, we just wrote it down. It felt like we were scientists observing some weird animals—us.
Getting Into the Groove
After about a week, we stopped pretending and just acted normal. And that’s when the real notes started.
- I saw that my Virgo need for order really clashed with my Taurus’s love for comfort. Like, I’d want the bed made perfectly the second we got up, and they just wanted to lounge in it.
- But then, the Taurus side brought this amazing calmness. When I’d start stressing about work, they’d just hug me and not say a word, and it actually worked.
- In the bedroom, it was a slow burn. Taurus wants to take their sweet time, and Virgo is all about making sure everything is just right. It wasn’t fireworks at first, but it was… deeply satisfying. Like a really good, home-cooked meal instead of fast food.
We started talking more about what we wrote. Instead of “You’re so stubborn!” it became “I see in my notes that on Tuesday, my fixed nature conflicted with your need for a precise schedule.” It sounds robotic, but it made us laugh and actually listen to each other.
The Big Realization
By the end of the two weeks, the notebook was full. The compatibility wasn’t about being perfect. It was about balance. My Virgo detail-oriented mind could plan a fantastic date night, and my Taurus’s love for sensory pleasure meant they’d pick the coziest restaurant and the best food. Together, we created experiences that were both well-organized and deeply enjoyable.
The sexuality part was the biggest surprise. It’s not a wild, passionate match. It’s a trust thing. It’s about feeling safe and appreciated. The physical connection got stronger because the everyday connection got stronger. We stopped keeping score on who was right and just focused on making the other person feel good.
Wrapping It Up
So, is Virgo and Taurus compatibility good? From my practice, hell yes. But it’s a quiet, building kind of good. It’s not for people who want drama and intensity. It’s for couples who are willing to put in the boring, daily work of noticing each other’s quirks and not trying to change them, just learning to dance with them. My buddy? I told him to stop complaining and start observing. He hasn’t called me back yet.
