Well, I’ve always been curious about how to figure out the love language of a Virgo man. So, I decided to take action and find out.
First off, I started by observing his daily behavior. I paid close attention to what he did for me and others around him. For example, he often helped me organize my messy desk, making sure everything was in order. He’d pick up little things that I might have missed, like refilling my pen with ink when it was running low. This made me think that acts of service could be one of his love languages.
Next, I initiated some conversations with him. I asked him about his favorite memories and what made him feel really happy in past relationships. He talked a lot about the times when his partner listened to his long – winded rants about work or life problems without interrupting. That’s when I realized that quality time, especially just sitting and listening, could be important to him.
Then, I tried giving him small gifts. I didn’t go overboard; just simple things like a book he mentioned wanting to read or a box of his favorite chocolates. At first, he was a bit shy and said I shouldn’t have bothered. But I noticed that he kept the book on his bedside table and savored the chocolates slowly. So, receiving gifts seemed to be a way to make him feel loved too.
Finally, I experimented with words of affirmation. I told him how much I appreciated his attention to detail and how it made my life easier. He blushed a little and seemed to stand a bit taller. He started sharing more of his ideas and plans with me after that.
After all these steps, I can say that I’ve got a pretty good idea of the love languages of a Virgo man. It’s a combination of acts of service, quality time, receiving gifts, and words of affirmation. It wasn’t easy, but the process was really worth it. Now, our relationship has become much closer.
