Well, I’ve been in a relationship with a guy who has those typical Virgo traits. It all started when we met at a friend’s party. I noticed him right away. He was sitting there, organizing the snacks on the table, making sure everything was in order.
I walked over and said hi. He looked up, gave me a polite smile, and then went back to what he was doing. I thought, “Okay, this is gonna be interesting.” I started chatting with him, and I realized he was super detail – oriented. He could tell me all about the different kinds of nuts in the bowl and where they were from.
As we got to know each other better, I found out he was really into routines. Every morning, he’d wake up at 6:30, go for a jog, and then come back to make a healthy breakfast. I’m more of a “wake up when I feel like it” kind of person, so that was a bit of a challenge at first.
One time, I invited him over to my place. My place was a bit messy, and he just couldn’t help himself. He started tidying up the living room while I was in the kitchen making coffee. I was like, “Dude, you don’t have to do that!” But he just smiled and said, “It’ll be quicker this way.”
When it came to arguments, he was always very logical. He’d list out all the reasons why he thought he was right, point by point. It was hard to argue with him because he was so well – organized in his thinking. But I learned to be more patient and listen to his side.
Another thing I noticed was that he was a perfectionist. He’d spend hours on a single project at work, making sure every detail was just right. Sometimes, I’d have to remind him to take a break and relax.
Over time, I realized that getting along with him meant accepting his quirks. I started to appreciate his attention to detail. When we went on a trip, he planned everything so well that we didn’t have a single problem. We had a great time, and I didn’t have to worry about a thing.
Now, we’ve been together for a while, and I’ve learned a lot. To get along with men with Virgo traits, you gotta be patient, accept their way of doing things, and sometimes, just go with the flow. It’s not always easy, but it’s definitely worth it.
