Well, I’ve been in a relationship between a Virgo and a Cancer, and boy, it had its fair share of problems. Let me tell you how I handled them.
First off, I noticed that the Virgo in the relationship was always super detail – oriented and a bit of a perfectionist. The Cancer, on the other hand, was really emotional and sensitive. This combination led to some clashes.
I started by having a heart – to – heart with both of them. I sat them down and said, “Hey, we gotta talk about what’s going on here.” I made them share their feelings openly. The Virgo started complaining that the Cancer was too moody and hard to predict. The Cancer said the Virgo was too nit – picky and didn’t understand their emotions.
Then, I came up with a plan. I told the Virgo to try to be more empathetic. I said, “When the Cancer is feeling down, don’t just point out the flaws. Give them a hug and listen to them.” And for the Cancer, I said, “Try to be a bit more logical when the Virgo is trying to solve a problem. Don’t let your emotions take over right away.”
I also encouraged them to do things together. I got them to go on a weekend trip. During the trip, they had to rely on each other. The Virgo planned the itinerary, and the Cancer added the emotional touch, like bringing some snacks for the road.
Over time, things started to change. The Virgo became better at handling the Cancer’s mood swings, and the Cancer learned to appreciate the Virgo’s attention to detail. They even started joking about their differences. The Virgo would say, “You’re so crazy sometimes, but I love you,” and the Cancer would reply, “Yeah, and you’re such a control – freak, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
So, in the end, handling problems in a Virgo and Cancer relationship is all about communication, understanding, and finding a balance. It’s not easy, but if you put in the effort, it can work out great. That’s my practical advice based on my own experience.
