Well, I’ve always been curious about how to tell if a Virgo man is in love. So I decided to do some hands – on exploration.
First, I started hanging out with a Virgo guy. I observed his every move. When we were together, I noticed he’d always listen to me carefully. He didn’t just nod along; he’d ask questions about what I said. For example, if I mentioned I liked a certain book, he’d ask me what the main idea was and what my favorite part was. This was different from other guys I’d met before. Most of them would just say “oh, that’s nice” and move on.
Then, I paid attention to his little acts of service. One day, I was complaining about having a lot of work to do. The next day, he showed up with a cup of coffee and some snacks. He said he knew I’d be busy and thought these might help me. It was such a sweet and practical gesture.
I also checked out his body language. When we were sitting together, he’d lean towards me, making sure to keep eye contact. His body was always turned in my direction, like he was fully focused on me. And he’d touch my arm gently when he was making a point, not in a creepy way, but in a way that showed he was trying to connect with me.
Another thing I did was look at how he introduced me to his friends. When he took me to meet his buddies, he was really proud to show me off. He’d talk about my achievements and how cool I was. It was clear that he wanted his friends to think highly of me.
As time went on, I realized that he was always trying to improve himself around me. He’d start reading more books because he knew I was into reading. He even learned some new cooking skills so he could cook for me. It was like he was constantly evolving to be a better match for me.
After all these observations and experiences, I finally came to the conclusion that he was definitely in love. The secret signals were there all along – the attentive listening, the acts of service, the body language, the way he introduced me to his friends, and his self – improvement efforts. These are the things that can tell you if a Virgo man is head over heels for you.
