Alright so here’s the deal – my Virgo partner and I, a classic Libra, hit a weird patch last month. Like, super awkward in bed. Communication? Nah. Spontaneity? Gone. Felt like roommates doing chores. Ugh. Needed a fix, fast.
The Grind Begins
Looked everywhere online for Virgo-Libra advice. Found tons of fluffy horoscope crap. Needed real, gritty stuff. Stumbled on 5 steps promising better sexual vibes. Skeptical? Hell yeah. But desperate times…
Here’s exactly what I tried, warts and all:
Step 1: Talk Straight, No Fluff
- Sat down Wednesday night. Grabbed tea (Libra move) while he organized receipts (peak Virgo).
- Broke the ice bluntly: “Yo, our sex life kinda sucks lately. Spill it – what feels off?”
- The sigh! He mumbled about “timing” and “distractions.” I vented about feeling rushed. Messy? Absolutely. But we actually listened. Shocker.
Step 2: Libra’s Flirty Texts, Virgo’s Calendar
- Next day, sent him a flirty meme at 3 PM (Libra vibes: playful but not pushy).
- His reply? “Can’t tonight. Deadline. Maybe Saturday?” Full Virgo mode. Almost eye-rolled.
- Fought my urge to whine. Instead: “Cool. Sat 8 PM? Mark it?” Made him own it in his planner.
Step 3: Setting the Mood? More Like Cleaning First.
- Saturday. Planned to light candles, play sexy Spotify playlist.
- But his side of the room? Clutter explosion. Knew he’d fixate. So… spent 20 mins tidying together.
- Compromise: Soft lighting (Libra) + crisp sheets (Virgo). Annoying? Yep. Necessary? Sadly, yes.
Step 4: Slow. Down. Everything.
- Virgos rush foreplay? Mine did. Kiss felt like a checklist.
- Slapped his hand away playfully. “Chill. We got time.” Teased him with feather-light touches instead. Watched him actually unwind. Libra patience FTW.
Step 5: Brutal Feedback Aftercare
- Post-sex, chugged water. Debriefed like weirdos: “Okay, what worked? What flopped?”
- He admitted slow stuff rocked. I confessed the planning eased my Libra indecisiveness. No sugarcoating. Little awkward? Totally. But worth it.
Where We Landed
Perfect? Nope. Still bicker about laundry mid-foreplay sometimes. But that first step – just brutally honest chatting? Game changer. Less tension, more giggling. Sex feels like us again, not some disconnected zodiac mismatch. Takes work though. Gotta meet halfway – my spontaneous Libra ass accepts the planner life, he tries not to overthink every freckle. Progress, not perfection, right?
