At first, I was really curious about whether Virgo’s emotional personality was hard to handle. So, I decided to start my exploration.
I began by observing a Virgo friend closely. I watched how he reacted in different situations, like when things didn’t go as planned or when he was under pressure. I noticed that he got really fussy and seemed to be in a bad mood easily. For example, one time when we were planning a trip, he freaked out because the hotel room didn’t match the pictures online. He started complaining non – stop, and it was a bit annoying.
Then, I thought about ways to deal with it. The first way I tried was to be super patient. I listened to his rants without interrupting. One day, he was really stressed about work. He came to me and just started talking about all the problems. I just sat there, nodded, and let him get it all out. After that, he seemed to calm down a bit.
The second way was to give him some space. Sometimes, when he was in a bad mood, I just left him alone for a while. Like when he was trying to organize his closet and got frustrated because he couldn’t find a certain shirt, I said, “Take your time, dude” and walked away. When I came back later, he was much more relaxed.
The third way was to distract him. Once, he was really worried about an upcoming exam. I suggested we go play basketball. At first, he was like, “No way, I have to study.” But I kept bugging him, and finally, he agreed. After an hour of playing, he completely forgot about his worries and was in a good mood.
The fourth way was to be really honest with him. One time, he was being overly critical of a group project we were working on. I told him, “Hey, your comments are a bit too harsh. We’re all trying our best here.” At first, he was a bit shocked, but then he thought about it and apologized.
Through this whole process, I found that dealing with a Virgo’s emotional personality isn’t impossible. It just takes some effort and the right methods. By being patient, giving space, distracting, and being honest, I was able to have a better relationship with my Virgo friend and handle his emotional outbursts more effectively.
