Why I Even Bothered Checking Virgo-Virgo Stuff
Okay, look. I gotta be honest, I usually roll my eyes at this whole star sign compatibility thing. Feels kinda random, you know? Like guessing the weather. But 2021 was just… rough. So many wild things happening. I got curious. Could two Virgos, both supposedly super organized and picky, actually survive that messy year together without driving each other insane? I decided to poke around. For fun, mostly.
How I Actually Did This Thing
Started simple. I remembered one of my buddies is a hardcore Virgo guy, born late August. His girlfriend? Also a Virgo, right at the beginning of September. Perfect lab rats, honestly. I just called him up one Tuesday night. Casual chat. “Hey man, how’s it going with you and Sarah, seriously? How was last year for you guys?” Didn’t mention the stars at all at first. Just wanted real talk.
His reaction surprised me. He actually brought it up! “Man, 2021 was brutal for us Virgos, I swear!” That got me interested. So I pushed a bit, asked specific stuff:How did you deal with all the crazy changes? House stuff? Work stress?
- First thing out his mouth? “We basically planned everything. Like, every. little. thing.” Dates, groceries, what to watch – scheduled like a military operation.
- The big fights? Always about stuff not getting done exactly right, or one of them stressing about tiny details the other missed. Basically, double the nitpicking!
- But here’s the kicker: He said because they both understood each other’s need to control and clean, they kinda cut each other slack quicker than with other signs. Like, “Oh, you need to rearrange the pantry again at 10 PM? Fine, whatever. I get it.”
After hanging up, I dug deeper. I looked up popular astrology websites, but honestly, a lot felt fluffy. Focused on big phrases like “practical earth signs” or “shared values.” Boooring. I wanted the real dirt, the daily grind stuff. Finally found some forums where actual Virgo-Virgo couples were ranting or celebrating.Patterns started showing:
- Constant battle against messiness: Double the effort, double the irritation if one slacked.
- Big plus? Goals were locked in. Saving money? Career moves? Both all in, no arguments on the plan.
- Emotions were tricky. Both bottled things up until they exploded over something dumb, like dishes left out.
What This Whole Deep Dive Actually Showed Me
Putting it all together – my buddy’s experience plus the online chaos – I saw why people might think Virgo-Virgo works in 2021, or any tough year. Organizational overload! They handle upheaval by trying to plan it into submission. Major strength? Total agreement on the big life stuff, the ‘getting things done properly’ part. They were building forts against the chaos of that year.
But the downside? Hoo boy. 2021 threw constant, unpredictable curveballs. This is where two Virgos could really crack. Too much planning met too much uncertainty. And the double dose of criticism? It meant tiny cracks in the routine could feel like earthquakes. Plus, neither wanted to be the ‘messy’ one showing vulnerability first, making communication tough when things got emotionally heavy.
So, is Virgo with Virgo good? For 2021? It wasn’t easy mode, that’s for sure. They had the tools (organization, shared goals) to survive the practical stuff way better than other combos might. But the emotional toll? The constant pressure to be ‘perfect’ in a wildly imperfect year? That was the real struggle. My main takeaway? It works if both can chill on the nitpicking and actually talk about the messy feelings hiding underneath all that perfect scheduling. Otherwise, 2021 would just chew them up and spit them out.
