Well, let me tell you about my experience with a Libra man and a Virgo woman love match. It all started when I introduced this Libra guy and this Virgo girl. I thought, hey, why not give it a shot?
I got them to meet at a small gathering. The Libra man was all charming, smiling and making small talk. He kept complimenting the Virgo woman on her looks and her smart remarks. The Virgo woman, at first, was a bit shy. She was kind of observing him carefully, sizing him up.
After that first meeting, I encouraged them to go on a date. The Libra man planned a really nice dinner at a cozy restaurant. He pulled out the chair for her and ordered wine. The Virgo woman was impressed by his gentlemanly behavior. But then, she started to nit – pick a bit about the food, like the seasoning was a bit off or the presentation could be better. The Libra man was a bit taken aback at first, but he quickly laughed it off and said it was okay.
As they went on more dates, I noticed some differences. The Libra man was all about having fun and going with the flow. He wanted to try new things and explore the city. The Virgo woman, on the other hand, was very organized. She planned their outings in advance, made lists of places to visit and things to do. Sometimes, the Libra man felt a bit restricted by her plans, and the Virgo woman thought he was too laid – back.
There were also arguments. Once, they were deciding on a movie to watch. The Libra man wanted a romantic comedy, but the Virgo woman thought it was too cheesy and wanted a more thought – provoking drama. They bickered back and forth for a while, but then the Libra man decided to give in and watch the drama with her.
To make it work, I gave them some advice. I told the Libra man to appreciate the Virgo woman’s attention to detail. I said, “Hey, she’s trying to make things perfect for you guys.” And I told the Virgo woman to loosen up a bit and let the Libra man have some say in the plans. “Let him have his fun, it won’t hurt,” I said.
Slowly, they started to understand each other better. The Libra man started to see the value in the Virgo woman’s organization, and the Virgo woman began to enjoy the spontaneity of the Libra man. They started to compromise more. For example, they’d alternate between the types of movies they watched, or they’d plan half of the trip and leave the other half for some random adventures.
Now, they’re still together and doing great. They’ve learned that in a relationship, it’s all about give and take. You can’t always have your way, but if you work together, you can make it a really awesome journey.
