Okay so this Libra guy I’ve been seeing? We kept tripping over tiny stuff. I’m talking like, he’d wanna go out every night and I’m more “let’s organize the sock drawer for fun”. Saw some Virgo-Libra tips on that Ganeshaspeaks site and figured – why not try it? Here’s exactly how it went down.
First Step: Reading That Messy Advice
Grabbed my phone at like 2AM when he texted “u awake?” again. Scrolled through those tips till my eyes burned. Main takeaways? Libra needs social time like air, Virgos gotta chill about details, and both need to stop assuming the other’s purposely annoying them. Felt way too familiar when it said Virgos nitpick as “care” and Libras avoid fights by ghosting.
Putting It to the Test
Friday night hits. He wants party vibes downtown – my gut reaction was “ugh traffic, parking, loud people”. But I remembered tip #1: “Say yes to Libra adventures sometimes”. So I literally said: “Okay but two conditions – we leave by 11, and you pick the spot so I don’t overthink it.”
His face did this shocked-pikachu thing. Usually I’d dissect 15 Yelp reviews first. We went. I didn’t complain once about sticky floors. Big deal for me.
When the Tips FAILED Hard
The part about “Libra will compromise if you ask”? Nah. Sunday I needed help cleaning before my mom visited. Advice said “Libra responds to positive requests”. So I tried “Babe if you vacuum while I scrub the fridge, we can cuddle after!”
He smiled… then disappeared “to charge his phone” for an hour. Later found him scrolling memes in the bathroom. My Virgo rage almost murdered the tipsheet. Had to reread the “patience” part like 5 times.
The Unexpected Win
Best advice was “Schedule Virgo critique sessions so Libra doesn’t feel ambushed”. Tuesday over coffee I said “Got minor complaints. Wanna hear now or after your coffee?”. He actually laughed and said “Shoot”. I kept it quick: “Please stop leaving wet towels on the bed. Gives me fungus anxiety.”
Next morning? Towel hung up crooked but off the damn bed. Compromise achievement unlocked.
Results After 2 Weeks
- Fewer passive-aggressive emojis (only one eggplant thrown this week)
- I say “I need alone time” before snapping about his loud music
- He actually asks “Too messy?” before dumping snacks on my tidy coffee table
Does it fix everything? Hell no. Virgo brain still whispers “he left a glass in the sink ON PURPOSE”. But knowing his social cravings aren’t personal? And him knowing my nitpicks equal “I give a crap”? Saved us like 4 dumb fights. Still wouldn’t trust him with my color-coded closet though.
