Alright so honestly Virgo season always messes with my head a bit. Relationships feel extra… complicated? Saw this thing about Monthly Virgo Predictions for better relationships – three simple strategies. Skeptical me thought, “Yeah, sure, simple,” but hey, I like trying stuff. Here’s how it went down.
Strategy 1: “Schedule Your Feels (Literally)”
The article was basically yelling at me: “Virgo, plan your dang check-ins!” I kinda roll my eyes at this stuff usually. My partner? More spontaneous, hates talking schedules. But I figured, what’s the worst that could happen?
So Tuesday morning, while gulping coffee, I whipped out my phone. Went into the calendar app – yeah, the one I usually ignore. Actually blocked out 30 minutes for Thursday night, titled it kinda awkwardly: “Relationship Check? 😬” Felt super dorky hitting save. Later that day, I just forwarded the invite. No fanfare, just a “Hey, saw this weird thing, thought maybe we could chat Thursday?” Response? “Lol ok weirdo. But sure.” Score one.
Thursday night rolled around. Ordered pizza instead of trying to cook fancy. Weirdly, having that stupid little block on the calendar meant neither of us bailed or got distracted by Netflix autoplay. Actually talked about stupid stuff bothering us – my pile of laundry mountain, his leaving lights on. Simple, scheduled, surprisingly effective. Didn’t solve world peace, but cleared the air. Felt less passive-aggressive, more intentional.
Strategy 2: “Ditch the Over-Analysis (For Like, an Hour)”
This one hit hard. Virgo’s curse = thinking everything to death. The advice said: Stop dissecting every text/silence/look. Pick one interaction daily and just… be. No analysis. Just experience.
My brain rebelled. How?? But I picked Wednesday evening when we were just sitting on the couch. Normally, my mind would be racing: “Is he quiet? Did I say something? Is he annoyed? Why hasn’t he mentioned dinner? What does that sigh mean? Should I say something?” Exhausting.
This time, I physically stopped myself. Took a breath. Told myself: “Just shut up and sit. Be here.” Focused on the dumb TV show we were half-watching – the colors, the stupid jokes. Didn’t look for deeper meaning in his posture or my own thoughts. Just existed in the same space, awkwardly at first. Realized how much energy I usually burn trying to decode nonexistent signals. That hour felt longer than usual, but surprisingly… lighter? Less exhausting.
Strategy 3: “Do ONE Thing Thoughtfully”
Last one sounded fluffy: Show care through one mindful action daily. Not grand gestures, but noticing. Virgo likes productivity, so this seemed like actionable care? I decided to try Friday morning.
Instead of rushing my coffee or nagging about chores while half-asleep, I noticed his favorite mug was dirty. I usually just grab whatever’s clean. Actually stopped, washed that specific mug, made his coffee how he actually likes it (strong, splash of milk, no sugar – I usually forget the milk), and just set it down without the usual morning flurry of complaints/questions/demands.
He came in, bleary-eyed, grabbed it. Did a double-take. “Oh… hey. Thanks. You used the good mug.” Tiny smile. That was it. But it felt like a win. No big speech, no expecting praise. Just did the thing. Small, thoughtful, specifically for him.
What Actually Happened?
Honestly? The magic wasn’t in the stars telling the future. It was these simple actions forcing me out of my usual Virgo head-spaces:
- Planning the talk stopped the nagging buildup.
- Forcing myself not to analyze gave my brain a break and made me actually be present.
- Choosing one thoughtful action made care feel tangible, not theoretical.
Did it solve everything? Nope. Still gonna overthink a text message next week, guaranteed. But for a few days, these “simple strategies” cut through the noise. Less friction, more noticing each other. Less Virgo stress, more connection. Might even try keeping that calendar trick going… maybe.
