My Personal Journey
So I’ve been tracking astrological relationships for 3 years now. Last January, my Pisces buddy Mark started dating Sarah – total Virgo woman. He begged me to study their 2025 compatibility before proposing. Figured I’d document the whole process real-time.
Starting the Research
First I dug into both birth charts. Pulled their exact birth times from Facebook posts and old texts. Calculated planetary positions using three different apps. Took all damn weekend.
Wrote down the biggest pain points:
- Virgo’s nitpicking vs Pisces’ thin skin
- Money habits (she budgets pennies, he buys rounds for whole bar)
- His flakiness driving her crazy
Live Testing Phase
Made them try three experiments last month:
- Had Sarah plan their weekend down to 15-minute blocks (Virgo heaven)
- Forced Mark to cancel last-minute twice (to test her tolerance)
- Sat them down for budget talks – nearly caused breakup right there
Sarah’s notes were longer than my grocery lists. Mark ghosted for two days after money chat.
Discovering the Core Problem
Tracked their text fights for 6 weeks. The real issue? Venus retrograde patterns messing with their communication channels. When Mercury goes haywire in 2025, it’ll hit them like a truck.
Their main danger zones:
- August 2025: Career decisions causing huge fights
- December 2025: Family pressures exploding
- Constant misunderstandings about emotional needs
The Preparation Plan
Created a battle plan for them:
- Pre-written scripts for tough conversations
- Monthly “grudge release” sessions
- Separate bank accounts (with auto-transfer trick)
- Code word for when Mark needs escape time
Made them rehearse fight scenarios like theater class. Looked ridiculous but worked.
Unexpected Twist
Here’s the kicker – while coaching them, my OWN Virgo ex hit me up! Used the same techniques on her. Now we’re grabbing coffee next week. Life’s funny like that sometimes.
Final tip: If you’re in this combo, start talking finance TODAY. Trust me. Saturn doesn’t play nice.
