Starting My Pisces-Virgo Journey in January
Alright, let me be real honest. I’m a Virgo sun, Virgo moon – like, double Virgo energy. My partner? Double Pisces. We’ve clicked mentally for years, but the physical part? Always kinda hit-or-miss. Saw tons of stuff online about Pisces-Virgo 2023 predictions claiming “sparks fly” this year. Figured, why not test it out properly? Made this my personal project for 2023. I grabbed my journal and decided to track EVERYTHING, good and bad.
Setting Up The Ground Rules (Virgo Style)
First week of January, I sat us down. Like, literally. Notebook open, pen ready. I told my Pisces: “We’re doing this. We’re tracking our ‘spark levels’ for this whole damn year based on what astro folks say.” Needed structure, obviously.
Here’s what I tracked every month:
- The major planetary transits (like when Venus went into Leo).
- Our actual intimacy frequency.
- Noted who initiated (spoiler: Pisces usually did).
- Rated the ‘depth’ and ‘spontaneity’ from 1-10 (Virgo needs numbers!).
- Jotted down BIG emotional moments – fights, breakthroughs, weird moods.
My Pisces rolled their eyes at first – typical. But hey, they played along eventually. Bless their watery hearts.
Month-by-Month: The REAL Breakdown
Okay, forget fluffy predictions. Here’s the real dirt on how it actually went down:
- February (Venus Retrograde Mess): Absolute disaster zone. Astro sites warned against serious talks? We ignored it. Had the BIGGEST fight about commitment vibes. Zero intimacy for nearly three weeks. Like, frosty silence. Virgo panic set in – was this project doomed already?
- April (Mercury in Aries, their 8th House): Holy crap. THIS is where people talk sparks flying? Legit TRUE. Out of nowhere, my usually chill Pisces got… bold. Like, shockingly direct. Initiated constantly. Energy was electric, intense. Felt totally different from our usual slow burn. My 10/10 spontaneity rating? Happened here.
- July (Full Moon in Capricorn): Virgo energy went into hyper-focus. Suddenly I felt this urge to plan… adventures. Researched new things to try, got super organized (maybe too much? I brought notes. Again, Virgo gonna Virgo). Surprisingly, Pisces LOVED it. Felt cared for, not criticized. Huge shift. Depth rating hit a solid 9. Talked way more openly afterward than usual.
- October (Mars Squaring Saturn): Ugh. Fatigue city. Both of us. Astro warned about frustration? Yeah. Everything felt like effort. Virgo nitpicked little things. Pisces retreated into daydreams. Intimacy felt… routine. Mechanical. Spark felt pretty damn low. Numbers tanked. We kinda grunted at each other a lot.
The Big Realization (December Reflection)
Sitting here now at year-end, flipping through this damn spreadsheet of feels and numbers. Did the “sparks fly” overall? Not constantly. But the BIG moments astro pointed to? The April intensity, the July connection? SPOT ON. The ‘sparks’ weren’t a constant fireworks show like some clickbait said. It was more like… targeted lightning strikes during specific cosmic weather. Wild highs when transits favored it, definite dry spells when planets clashed.
Final Verdict from My Notebook
Will sparks fly for Pisces-Virgo in 2023? Honestly? YES. But it ain’t magic. It relies HEAVILY on:
1. Knowing WHEN (track those transits! April & July vibes were gold for us).
2. Communication ESPECIALLY during crap transits like February & October.
3. Virgo chilling TF out with over-planning sometimes.
4. Pisces actually speaking up about what they want in the moment.
It’s a push-pull dynamic. When the cosmos gives you a window (like April’s energy)? Damn, jump through it together. The sparks ignited. The rest? Well… you gotta just ride it out without killing each other. This combo needs work, but the fire is totally possible this year. Learned that firsthand.
Would I do it all again? Yeah. But maybe with slightly fewer spreadsheets.
