Okay so I was scrolling through astrology stuff last month and noticed a bunch of questions about Venus in Virgo men. People kept saying how hard it was to date them, and honestly? It made me curious. I’ve been with my guy for two years now, and guess what? His Venus is in Virgo. Here’s exactly what I did to make our relationship click.
First Thing I Did: Actually Learn What Venus Virgo Means
I didn’t just read one post and call it a day. Went deep – like, watched three YouTube astrologers rant about Virgo Venuses. Found out they’re not cold, just practical with love. They show care through actions, not mushy words. My guy fixes my leaky faucet at midnight but forgets anniversaries. Classic.
The Experiment Week
Decided to test theories for seven days straight:
- Stopped expecting romantic speeches. Instead, I paid attention when he reorganized my chaotic bookshelf “for better airflow.”
- Asked for specific help. Instead of “Can you support me?”, said “Can you proofread my work email? You’re good at catching errors.” He lit up like a damn Christmas tree.
- Gave feedback sandwiches. When his nitpicking got intense? Wrapped critiques in compliments: “Love how detail-oriented you are – but maybe don’t correct my grammar during movie nights?”
Where Things Blew Up
Wednesday almost killed the vibe. I wore his favorite shirt without asking – got a 10-minute lecture about fabric care. Was ready to scream. But remembered: his criticism isn’t personal, it’s his Venus Virgo trying to “optimize” things. So I nodded, said “Good points,” then wore it again next week with fabric softener. He quietly smiled.
The Game Changer
Realized he expresses love by fixing problems. So last Saturday, I “broke” my laptop charger. Asked him to look at it. He spent an hour testing outlets, muttering about voltage. When he “fixed” it (I’d just unplugged it lol), he looked prouder than when I said “I love you” last month.
So Does It Work?
Here’s the raw deal: expecting hearts and roses will leave you crying. But if you reframe it? My dude remembers my vitamin schedule, edits my resumes, and organizes my tax files. That’s his love language. The relationship didn’t improve until I stopped fighting his wiring and leaned into it.
Still annoying? Hell yes. Last night he rearranged my spices by expiration date. But now I just laugh and toss him the oregano jar going bad next month. Venus Virgo men? Let them problem-solve your life and you’ll be their favorite puzzle.
