So last night I’m scrolling through my phone, totally avoiding work emails, and I stumble upon this Virgo weekly love guide. Figured, hey, why not? As a Virgo myself, this month’s been kinda weird emotionally, felt a bit lost. Printed that thing out first thing this morning – my ancient printer practically wheezed – grabbed a huge mug of coffee, and got down to business.
What the Stars Said I Should Try
The main advice screamed at me was about communication. Apparently, with the planets being messy, I needed to be super careful about how I talk, especially to my partner or anyone I’m vibing with. No assumptions! Over-explaining is better than under-explaining right now. Also, something about focusing on practical help instead of just sweet words. Showing I care by doing stuff, you know?
My Game Plan for the Day
Decided I’d test this out on my boyfriend Mike later, and maybe even see how it worked with my annoying coworker Dave who never seems to get what I’m saying. Planned simple things:
- No vague texts. Like, instead of “What time later?” I’d say “What time are you thinking for dinner? Around 7:30 works for me if you’re free?” Sounds robotic? Probably. But that’s what Mr. Astrology wanted.
- Do something small but useful. Mike mentioned his bike seat felt loose yesterday. I hunted down his hex wrench set – took ages, our garage is a disaster zone – and left it right next to the bike.
- Listen way more than talk. Especially with Dave. Count to three before replying. Don’t jump in. Hard for a Virgo, we wanna fix things NOW!
How It Actually Went Down
First test: The texts to Mike. Felt SO WEIRD typing out whole sentences instead of just “?” or “later?” He actually replied faster than usual, like “Yeah, 7:30 is perfect! Pickup Thai?” Definitely smoother. Okay, point one for the stars. Maybe there’s something here?
The hex wrench thing… he saw it and just kinda grunted, “Oh, thanks.” Not fireworks, but he did use it before work. So… subtle win? Showing care by doing… check?
Then came Dave. Oh boy. He started ranting about a project schedule being “impossible.” Normally I’d jump in with five solutions. Instead, I shut my mouth, nodded a lot, and asked “What part feels impossible?” He stared at me like I grew a third eye. HUGE mistake. He then proceeded to talk non-stop for TWENTY MINUTES about all the problems. Didn’t solve a dang thing, felt like ages listening, but hey… he seemed less mad at me? Planets said avoid assumptions, and I guess assuming I knew his problem was wrong? Ugh. Exhausting. Maybe a win for peace? Sorta?
So, Did This Astro Advice Actually Help?
Mixed bag, honestly. The “over-communicate” text thing actually worked with Mike – less confusion. The “do something helpful” was quiet, but felt right. Trying really hard not to assume stuff with Dave… that was painful but probably prevented an argument. Felt like walking on eggshells, gotta say.
My coffee was cold by the time Dave finished, and that hex wrench hunt made me late. But overall… yeah, maybe the guide had a point? Being super clear and slightly less fixy did smooth some edges. Would I do the Dave-listening-marathon again? Only under planetary duress. But for my main relationship stuff? Yeah, I’ll probably try keeping up the extra details in texts and the little helpful actions. Felt… steadier. Mostly.
