Alright folks, gather ’round. So, you might be looking at that title, “Virgo Monthly Love Horoscope November 2019: What to expect?”, and thinking, “Why on earth did you get into that?” Well, let me tell you, it all started with a slightly desperate text from my cousin, Brenda. She’s a hardcore Virgo, bless her heart, and November 2019, for her, was apparently a huge deal, romantically speaking. She was hitting a wall with her boyfriend, like, a big, brick wall. She knew I tinkered with all sorts of data and patterns, even if it was just for fun, and she figured I could somehow “decode” her love life using the stars.
I laughed it off at first, obviously. I’m no astrologer. But then she sent me like, five crying emojis and a picture of a sad cat, and I just couldn’t say no. So, I figured, “Okay, let’s see what a regular Joe like me can actually pull together for a love horoscope, just based on what’s out there.” It became a little project, a kind of personal challenge to see if I could make sense of it all, or at least understand how these things are usually put together. I mean, people read them all the time, right?
My first step? Obvious, right? I hit the internet. I started by just typing in “Virgo love horoscope November 2019” and boy, did a ton of stuff pop up. I’m talking about big astrology sites, small personal blogs, even some YouTube videos. It was a proper rabbit hole. I quickly noticed a pattern: a lot of it was super vague. Like, “expect changes” or “communication is key.” I mean, when is communication not key? It felt like reading a fortune cookie, but with more planets.
So, I shifted my strategy. I decided I needed to understand the basics of astrology, at least for Virgos in November. I started looking up where the planets were relative to Virgo during that month. I mean, Mars, Venus, Mercury – these are supposedly big players in love and communication, right? I found myself looking at these crazy charts, trying to figure out what was “trining” what, or what was in “retrograde.” It was like learning a whole new language, and honestly, a bit of a headache. I watched a few beginner videos, and these folks, they talk about “aspects” and “houses” like it’s common knowledge. My brain was melting.
I started jotting down what I found. I opened a simple text file, just raw notes. I’d pull a bit from one site saying “Venus in Capricorn for Virgos means practical love” and then another saying “Mercury direct will clear up misunderstandings.” My goal wasn’t to believe it, but to see if I could synthesize some kind of coherent narrative. I wanted to see if there was any common thread, anything that consistently showed up across multiple sources. I was basically trying to reverse-engineer a horoscope writer’s job, without any actual astrological knowledge.
What I quickly ran into was a lot of contradiction or just plain nothingness. One site would say “expect passion,” another would lean into “focus on friendship.” It was like trying to piece together a story from a hundred different books, all telling a slightly different version. I even tried to find specific dates for “peak love days” or “communication hurdles,” but those were even more elusive. Most times, it was just “mid-month could bring a turning point.” Yeah, thanks for that specific insight.
I spent probably a good three evenings after work messing with this. My wife thought I was totally losing it, talking about “Virgo ascendants” and “Jupiter conjuncting.” It was a proper dive into something I knew nothing about. I pulled out my calendar for November 2019 and tried to mentally map out what Brenda’s experience might be like based on these cosmic whispers. I tried to connect the dots: if Mercury was doing X, and Venus was doing Y, what did that actually mean for a Virgo’s ability to, say, talk to her boyfriend without arguing?
By the end of it, what did I “expect” for Brenda? Honestly, not much concrete. I basically distilled all the vague pronouncements into a few overarching themes. I told her, “Look, Brenda, seems like November is gonna be about clarity, maybe some tricky talks, but ultimately, finding some common ground.” I packaged it up with a lot of “the stars suggest” and “energy is flowing towards” language, just to sound convincing. I even threw in a “be open to unexpected changes in your emotional landscape” for good measure.
And you know what? A month later, she called me up, all excited. She said, “You totally nailed it! We had a big talk, cleared things up, and it was a total turning point!” She was convinced I was some kind of secret astrology guru. I just smiled and nodded into the phone. The truth is, I probably just gave her a positive frame of mind and some general life advice wrapped in cosmic glitter. My “practical process” was more about sifting through a mountain of generalized statements and finding the lowest common denominator of optimism and self-awareness. It was quite an experience, and taught me a lot about how people interpret and apply these predictions to their own lives.
