Hey guys! So, I’ve been dealing with a Virgo friend lately, and I got curious about those so – called negative traits and if they can be changed. I mean, we all got our quirks, right?
First off, I started by making a list of the common negative traits I’ve noticed in my Virgo friend. You know, things like being overly critical, perfectionist, and a bit too fussy. I sat down with a pen and paper, and just jotted down every time I thought, “Oh, there’s that Virgo trait again!”
Then, I decided to have a little chat with my friend. I didn’t go all serious on ’em. I just said, “Hey, I’ve been thinking about how you do things, and I wonder if you ever feel like changing some of your ways.” My friend kind of shrugged it off at first, like, “What’s wrong with how I am?”
Next, I started looking for some tips on how to deal with these traits. I asked around my other friends, like, “Hey, how do you handle a Virgo’s perfectionism?” One of my friends said, “Just give ’em a task and let ’em do it their way, then gently point out if it can be better.”
I tried that tip with my Virgo friend. I gave ’em a small project to organize our movie night. They went all out, making a detailed list of movies, snacks, and even the seating arrangement. It was super detailed, but I could tell they were stressing over it. So, I said, “Hey, this is great, but maybe we don’t need to be so strict about the seating. Let’s just be more relaxed.”
At first, my friend got a bit defensive. They said, “But this is the best way to do it!” But I just kept saying, “It’s okay to be a bit flexible.” After a few times of me gently pushing back, they started to loosen up a bit.
Another thing I did was to show my friend that making mistakes is okay. I deliberately made some small mistakes in front of ’em during our hang – outs. Like, I spilled a little bit of soda on the table. I just laughed it off and said, “Oops, no big deal!” I think that helped my friend see that not everything has to be perfect.
Over time, I noticed some changes in my friend. They were less critical of others and themselves. They started to accept that things don’t always have to be done in the most perfect way. It wasn’t a huge transformation overnight, but little by little, I could see the difference.
So, to sum it up, changing those negative Virgo traits is possible, but it takes time and patience. You gotta have those honest chats, give gentle tips, and show that it’s okay to be imperfect. It’s like training a puppy, but with a human. You just gotta keep at it, and you’ll see some good results.
