Alright folks, lemme share how this whole “Virgo Rising Love 2024” thing actually went down for me. I stumbled across this idea back in January, kinda skeptical but also curious. Virgo Risings are supposed to be super analytical, picky, and maybe a bit shy in love, right? Sounds painfully familiar. So, I decided to treat it like one of my other experiments – gotta try it to see if it sticks.
The Homework Phase
First thing I did was dive deep into what 2024 supposedly held for Virgo Rising folks. Astrology sites, forums, the whole nine yards. The key points everyone hammered on were:
- Venus in Gemini bringing more communication chances
- Jupiter in Gemini making social stuff easier, especially from mid-year
- Neptune hangin’ out demanding way more honesty than usual
- But Saturn squaring the whole thing, meaning hard work was required
Felt like a mixed bag – exciting potential but big warning signs too. My takeaway? Don’t just sit there waiting.
The Action Plan (My Messy Spreadsheet)
Okay, Virgo Rising kicked in hard here. I made a dang spreadsheet. Don’t laugh! Needed structure. Here’s what I put into practice:
- Expanded the Social Pool: Forced myself to say “yes” more. Friend’s cousin’s BBQ? Yes. Weird art gallery opening? Sure. Even downloaded one of those apps focused on events, not just endless swiping.
- Talked, Really Talked: Venus in Gemini wasn’t kidding. Stopped defaulting to boring “So, what do you do?” stuff. Asked weird questions. Shared dumb little stories about my day. Actually listened – like, took notes mentally after dates.
- Filtered by Authenticity: Neptune made this crystal clear. If someone felt even slightly “off,” or said stuff that didn’t match their vibe, I paid attention. Didn’t ignore gut feelings, even if they were cute. Asked direct questions earlier than felt comfortable.
- Embraced the Saturn Grind: Accepted dating this year wasn’t gonna be effortless magic. If something started promising, I put effort in. Planned thoughtful dates. Followed up. Didn’t ghost if I wasn’t interested – had the awkward conversation.
The Results (The Good, The Bad, The Virgo Cringe)
Honestly, it was a rollercoaster, like most dating adventures.
- Met way more people, some truly fascinating, some total duds.
- Had a few promising connections fizzle out – probably Saturn doing its thing.
- Caught a couple of inconsistencies early on (thanks Neptune!) and dipped out, saved myself some headache.
Then, around late spring, started chatting with someone after a ridiculously nerdy board game night. The talking part flowed insanely well – witty, deep, weirdly comfortable. Put the effort in Saturn demanded. And crucially, the authenticity vibe felt strong from day one. No red flags, just… ease.
We’re still seeing where it goes. But the point is, it feels like the right kind of potential partner fit, which was the whole goal. Did I manifest it solely by being a Virgo Rising? Doubtful. But actively using the transits as a framework for action definitely shook me out of my usual overthinking, overly critical dating rut.
What Actually Worked
For this Virgo Rising at least, it boiled down to:
- Getting out physically, using events/apps to create Gemini-type encounters.
- Prioritizing genuine conversation over polished profiles.
- Trusting intuition strongly.
- Putting in consistent effort when something showed promise.
Took work, felt awkward sometimes, but way more productive than just hoping. Worth a shot!
