So I decided to dig into Virgo women after my friend started dating one. I kept hearing how complex they are, and I wanted to see for myself.
Starting with the basics
First thing I did was just talk to people. I asked my friend a bunch of questions about his girlfriend. What does she like? What gets on her nerves? I also read a few articles online, but they all sounded the same. Too generic. I needed real-life examples.
Observing and taking notes
Then I got a chance to hang out with them a few times. I paid close attention to how she acted. I noticed little things right away.
- Super organized: Her apartment was spotless. Everything had a place. She even had a specific way of folding the napkins.
- Super helpful: If someone had a problem, she’d immediately jump in with a practical solution. But you could tell she got frustrated if people didn’t listen.
- Quiet at first: She wasn’t loud. She’d sit back and watch everyone, almost like she was analyzing the whole room.
I started writing all this down in a notebook. Just quick notes after each hangout.
Putting it all together
After a few weeks, I looked at my notes. The pattern was clear. It wasn’t about being picky or critical, like some people say. It was about having high standards, mostly for herself. She wants things to be right. She shows love by fixing things and helping out, but it can come off as nagging if you don’t understand her.
The biggest thing I learned is you can’t take it personally. If she points out a better way to do something, it’s because she cares. It’s her language. Understanding that changed everything. My friend says their arguments have gone way down since he figured that out.
So yeah, that was my little project. It was actually pretty fun to see how personality traits show up in real life, not just in some book.
